Conflicts

Conflicts are good. It's great to have an argument (die Auseinandersetzung)  It means we have to find a new solution. It means that the relationship will be deeper. Once we can figure out how to solve the problem we feel free, we feel like a newborn baby. Some people try to avoid conflicts. They think conflict avoidance (die Konfliktvermeidung) is ok. I don't think so. 

Each conflict, argument sends a signal. It is important not to take it personally and simply try to find the best solution . The only way to achieve it is through the resistance ( der Widerstand), pain (der Schmerz), difficulties  (die Schwierigkeiten) and  anger (die Wut). Do you agree?

Question for discussion for the German lesson: 

1. How do you solve conflicts in your culture?
2. Is it better to avoid the conflict of face the problems and try to solve them?